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In the beginning days of their love, they used to be good, but as the days passed, clashes started between them, as happens in every relationship. On one fine day, as usual, they quarreled with each other for a small reason, and suddenly he started abusing her that day. So, questions arose in her mind due to the change in his behaviour. He even discussed his future plans and brought up a marriage proposal. From then on, whenever any dispute happened between them, he abused her for no reason. She excused him every time, regardless of her self-respect. She used to take the initiative with her heavy heart by hiding her pain caused by him through his words, as she loved him. He used to find reasons to leave her, never take the initiative to sort out the issue, and blame her for what she didn't do. She compromised herself because she wanted him. Finally, he came up with the word that he wanted to break up with her; she pleased him to stay, cried a lot, expressed her love towards him, sa...

This was the story of a couple whom I knew through one of my friends. It was the day on which she texted him for the first time. She doesn't remember the exact date, but she will remember that day throughout her life. Though she knew him before, as he is her relative, they never spoke or met each other. Their journey of love started on a social media platform named "Instagram". She would really thank social media; if it weren't there, she wouldn't have been able to meet him and experience the things that happened. She was scrolling through Instagram, and suddenly she found his ID in the suggestions. Then she opened it and started going through his posts, and she came to know that he is an author through the posts she read. She really loved the poetry and snippets he wrote, so she texted him to congratulate him on the work he was doing; that was the day on which their initial conversation came into the picture. In the initial days, they used to speak hard with ea...

In this blog, I want to talk about the state of relationships nowadays by dividing people into two categories:  Teenagers  Adults  Teenagers In the present era, teenagers are not like they were in the olden days. We can observe the change in their mindsets, behaviours, physical appearance, etc. According to 'WHO', teenagers are those who are less than 19 years of age. It means they cannot make the right decisions in that age period and do not have the maturity levels of adults. At this stage of life, attraction is likely to happen. But the youngsters are considering it as love and naming it as a relationship. Teenage plays a crucial role in everyone's life to be successful. It is the initial stage where we will succeed if we go on the right path by overcoming distractions, and it is also a game changer in life if we take the wrong step here. There are many distractions, like addiction to mobile, etc., but getting attracted to someone and wasting their entire time on them ...

  It was the next day of her marriage.   Rekha   felt a little shy and scared, as she was new to that place and the surrounding people, but she imagined her life would be colorful after her marriage. It's not only about  Rekha , but marriage plays a crucial role in every girl's life because they grew up somewhere, and for the rest of their lives, they should live with a guy to whom she was married. After a few days, her in-laws and husband started torturing her to bring in more dowry. Her husband used to abuse her for no reason. We can imagine the pain she felt at that moment. I don't understand why people behave so cruelly. What was the mistake that she committed? Why did she need to bear all the things they did? She left everyone and came with him, just trusting him. Is this the way they treat her? Still, so many girls are facing these situations as decades pass, but the mindsets of a few people are still the same. She gave them all the gold she had, went home, and...