RELATIONSHIP _ THE GAME CHANGER IN LIFE(PART-1)

In this blog, I want to talk about the state of relationships nowadays by dividing people into two categories:

  •  Teenagers
  •  Adults 

Teenagers

In the present era, teenagers are not like they were in the olden days. We can observe the change in their mindsets, behaviours, physical appearance, etc. According to 'WHO', teenagers are those who are less than 19 years of age. It means they cannot make the right decisions in that age period and do not have the maturity levels of adults. At this stage of life, attraction is likely to happen. But the youngsters are considering it as love and naming it as a relationship. Teenage plays a crucial role in everyone's life to be successful. It is the initial stage where we will succeed if we go on the right path by overcoming distractions, and it is also a game changer in life if we take the wrong step here. There are many distractions, like addiction to mobile, etc., but getting attracted to someone and wasting their entire time on them for temporary happiness has became a major issue in the present generation. There's no love in this age; it's just attraction. They are committing suicide for the sake of a girl. These people should realize the wrong steps they are taking and concentrate on their lives. I'm not saying no to relationships and love, but that's not the age we should get into.

Adults

This is the right age to enter a relationship or to love someone. They are the ones with an age above 19. Majority of the people are putting an end to it by breaking up with their partners within a short time and choosing some others, but few of them are true from their end and leading their love lives happily, and some people are committing suicide as their partner left them, and so on. I don't say that everyone is like that, but a few of them are just using the word 'love' to get into a relationship just to fulfil their needs or to showcase to someone that they have a girlfriend or boyfriend.

I will let you all know how most relationships are nowadays, and if you already get into them, how you can overcome that, and how some relationships act as game changers in our lives through a real story that happened in my next blog.






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