RELATIONSHIP-THE GAME CHANGER IN LIFE(PART-3)

In the beginning days of their love, they used to be good, but as the days passed, clashes started between them, as happens in every relationship. On one fine day, as usual, they quarreled with each other for a small reason, and suddenly he started abusing her that day. So, questions arose in her mind due to the change in his behaviour. He even discussed his future plans and brought up a marriage proposal. From then on, whenever any dispute happened between them, he abused her for no reason. She excused him every time, regardless of her self-respect. She used to take the initiative with her heavy heart by hiding her pain caused by him through his words, as she loved him. He used to find reasons to leave her, never take the initiative to sort out the issue, and blame her for what she didn't do. She compromised herself because she wanted him. Finally, he came up with the word that he wanted to break up with her; she pleased him to stay, cried a lot, expressed her love towards him, said she was not ready to break up, and asked him to say the reason for the decision he took as she did nothing wrong to leave her. He doesn't have a proper reason to say so, so he started blaming her, saying that she's the reason for whatever happened. Even after the breakup, she used to contact him, and he used to refuse her calls and messages. She went into depression and became emotionally and mentally weak.

If he loves her, he should take the initiative, sort things out, not abuse her, change her like he wanted her to be, accept her like she was, or think about the best way to find a solution because no one is perfect and everyone has flaws. Respect and trust play a crucial role in maintaining a healthy relationship. As an author, he says that he wants everyone to respect a girl, but he is not following that in his personal life. We are living in a society where we are inspired by someone's words, but they do not respect their people. Nowadays, most relationships are just for temporary needs, but due to this, a few people are ending their lives, and a few people are unable to come out of that, which means they are losing their careers and goals. There will be a few people who come into our lives just to fulfill their needs, and they have different mindsets; the one who shows us heaven will show us hell, and the people whom we trust the most will cheat us. Even if we didn't do anything, sometimes we will be blamed; we don't even understand why it happened. Make yourself ready to face everything.

Dear, If you are facing the same situation, don't worry at all because whatever happens in life makes us strong, and through that, we may get a person for life or a lesson for life. We need to experience and come across everything that happens, but we shouldn't commit suicide; instead, make them know your worth for losing you. Don't emotionally connect with anyone. Delete the past from your mind. Make yourself busy by scheduling your day productively. Make it a habit to do a meditation that keeps your mind relaxed and stress-free. Make time for yourself, your friends, and your family. Avoid something that distracts you and make yourself your first priority because nobody is going to stay with you throughout your life; only you will be there for you. Decide for yourself whether you want to see yourself in a good position by achieving your goals or whether you want to see yourself as a loser by wasting your time thinking about someone who left you.

Remember, the person who is the reason for the situation you are in will be happy for sure, but you will lose your entire life if you don't move on. I know it's hard to get out of this, but it's not impossible.

I hope this blog helps you understand how few relationships are game-changers in life. Just be aware of people, don't blindly believe anyone, think twice before you take a decision, and don't become a victim like the girl I mentioned in the story.